Are you worried your attorney thinks you’re making it up? Here’s how to tell if they’re really on your side, or just trying to get off the phone.
Signs They Believe You:
1- They Ask Detailed, Personal Questions 📝
They want to know everything: what you were wearing, what you had for breakfast, how you felt 12 hours later. This isn’t busywork; it’s building trust and a real case.
2- They Defend You When Talking to Others 🛡️
You overhear them correcting a doctor, adjuster, or even their own staff: “No, that’s not what happened. My client told me…” That’s advocacy in action.
3- They Keep Track of Your Timeline 📅
They remember your appointments, key dates, and actually call to remind you. You’re not just a file. They’re keeping up.
4- They Don’t Flinch at the Details 🤐
You admit something embarrassing, and they treat it like it’s just part of the process, not a reason to doubt you.
5- They Strategize With You, Not Against You 🤝
They involve you in planning: “Here’s what I’m thinking. What do you think?” That is a true sign of respect.
6- They Respond Promptly 📲
You aren’t ghosted for weeks at a time. When you reach out, you get an answer that makes you feel seen.
7- They Get Annoyed When the Other Side Challenges Your Credibility 😤
If an adjuster or defense attorney tries to paint you as a liar, your lawyer prepares for a fight. They will always defend you.
Signs They Don’t (Sorry):
1- Your Calls Always Go to Voicemail 📵
If you’re only ever talking to the front desk or a paralegal with a blank stare, you’re probably not a top priority.
2- They Never Ask Follow-Ups, Even When You Drop a Bombshell 💣
You mention a new injury, a weird symptom, or a changed story, and they just say “okay” and move on. No curiosity = no belief, or checked out.
3- Their Emails Get Shorter, Colder, and More Robotic Each Time 🥶
When every message reads like it was written by ChatGPT with zero editing (“As previously stated — refer to your retainer…”), it’s time to worry.
Pro Tip:
If you feel like you’re on trial with your own attorney, ask for a meeting (phone or in-person) and put your cards on the table. A real believer will listen; a doubter will dodge.